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5 THINGS YOU MUST NOT ALLOW TO TAKE CONTROL OVER YOUR LIFE.

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1. Your past.   Your past will always try to surface and redefine you, you must not allow it to take control over your present life or the future.  The pain you suffered in the past must be left behind you, so it will not ruin the fruitful future you are dreaming of.   Whatever  happen in the past,  you must let it go, leave the darkness of the past behind, so it won't block the light  of your bright future. Whatever happened, whether  it is unjust, cruel, harsh or whatever  the case may be, reviewing the event will never do you any good except harm.   If someone did you wrong, the only way you can deal with it is to let it go and move on. If you live with it, they win, if you want to win, you must focus on building your future and start right now. The moment is set for you to enjoy.     2. Other people's opinion and judgement.    Peoples opinion and judgements must not be the reason to take action,  don't  allow their summit to rule over your life, don't allo

MASTURBATION; A BEDROCK TO DESTRUCTION.

What is masturbation?    It is a self-stimulation of the genitals  to satisfy sexual pleasure,  usually  to the point of orgasm. It is a practice that entails touching, massaging or stroking of the penis or clitoris until orgasm is achieved. Some machine have been developed to achieve this stimulation, such as sex toys {vibrator} or vigina stimulator.   In recent research, by a national study, 95% of males and 89% of females reported they have engaged in masturbation. What leads to masturbation.    Many teenagers and adults in recent time got themselves  exposed to illicit views through  social media, music or films that contains  immoral scenes which leads  to arousal of the body, and this arousal needs to be satisfy. Many youths who have no partners to help them resulted in bringing  the pleasure to himself/herself.   In recent time, many see it as the last alternative to avoid fornication and adultery but men of integrity, who is always cautious of His God will never settl

YOU NEED TO CHANGE.

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Nothing  will change unless you  change.    Some of the amazing  part of life is that nothing will change unless you choose to change, nothing will get better unless you decided to do better.   It is not about luck or circumstances, it is all about thinking of ways to be more productive, ways to be more creative in any specialization or facet of life. You need to know that challenging events will come your way in life, you need to realize that things will not be rosy at all time in your life, don't worry that's normal in part of being human.   Remember, if you are waiting for the economy to change, your income to change, your relationship  to change, waiting for something to change, nothing will change unless you decided to change.   If you want change, YOU MUST CHANGE , if you want better, YOU MUST BE BETTER.   NOW TAKE NOTE.  Whenever you  realized you need a change in your life, you must always bear it in your mind that it is a gradual processes with maximum consis

YOUR MARRIAGE AND SOCIAL MEDIA

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MARRIAGE AND SOCIAL MEDIA  Sirnucy Lafiagi wrote (lecturer  Al-hikmah University) A few months ago, I was asked to intervene in a marital brouhaha that almost resulted in divorce. The allegation was huge and heartbreaking. It was a case of infidelity and, in this case the accused was the husband, and the crime was serial. It was a devastating experience that almost shattered the life of the wife. I spoke with him man to man and he admitted guilt and was extremely remorseful in his admittance. Between him and Allaah, he had repented sincerely and he wish that his wife overlooks his mistake and forgive him. After all, no one, except by Allaah's mercy and protection is safe from Shaytaan's web. Says a poet: ﻭﻟﻮﻻﻙ ﻟﻢ ﻳَﺴﻠَﻢْ ﻣِﻦْ ﺇِﺑﻠِﻴﺲَ ﻋﺎﺑﺪٌ ﻓﻜﻴﻒَ ﻭﻗﺪْ ﺃَﻏﻮﻯ ﺻﻔﻴَّﻚَ ﺁﺩﻣﺎ "But by your protection (O Allaah!) no devout would have escaped Iblis's temptation. And how would that be, when he (Iblis) led your chosen one, Adam astray?" At some point, his patien

MMM CEO WAVES GOODBYE TO THE WORLD.

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Russian businessman Sergei Mavrodi, whose MMM pyramid scheme deprived millions of Russians of their savings in the 1990s, has died of a heart attack, according to Russia media. It was reported that the 62-year-old was rushed to the hospital late on March 25 with pain in his chest and died several hours later. Mavrodi’s MMM financial pyramid was a typical Ponzi scheme in which earlier investors receive their profits from subsequent investors. Mavrodi promised returns of 20 percent to 75 percent a month, as well as lotteries and bonuses for investors. As soon as the number of new clients stopped growing, the pyramid collapsed, causing huge financial losses for at least 10 million people, in some cases leaving them destitute. In 1994, Mavrodi was elected as a lawmaker, a decision he later said was to ensure he received immunity from prosecution. In 1996, he lost his parliamentary mandate. In 2007, a Moscow court found him guilty of financial fraud and sentenced him to 4 1/2

YOU HAVE NO REASON TO QUIT.

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We’re destined to face pain and have everything been messed up in our life. We all suffer from sickness, heartbreak, death, failure and disappointment. Successful  people  can relate with this better because they experienced  it and learn how to deal about it.  When things go wrong, they commit to having faith when there is no reason to do so. I continue to have the same and I’ve thought about quitting so many times. That was until I realized that no struggle  no success.  The only reason I’m still here, and breathing, is because I decided not to quit. Quitting is the most painful form of suffering. Most of all, quitting on yourself is something you will never forgive yourself for. I know life is hard, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find an empowering way to break through all of the struggles. Here  are some reasons  you don't  have to quit: 1. Remember you are not in a race We quit on ourselves because we feel like life is a race against time. We feel like we have to ach

U.S.A President Donald.J. Trump shows concern over France attack .

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U.S.A President Donald.J. Trump shows  his concern  over ther attack that occured in france towards hos twitter handle and assure the france presidents,  Emmanuel  macron he is always with them. 

TO THE FAITHFUL HUSBAND

A WAKE UP CALL TO HUSBAND'S: A man was married to a beautiful woman whom he once loved so much but with the passing of time he began to look at her as not so lovely as she used to be. He started staying out late, never buying food for the house and hardly spoke to the wife. What had happened was that the husband started admiring other women at the office and stopped giving his wife money to spend on herself. Her hair really needed attention, her body yearned for perfume but the husband was now a changed man. The wife knew that the husband was spending money all other women and eating out. She quickly devised a plan and put it into action. She went through some magazines and found a picture of a very beautiful model and cut it out. She took a photo of the photo and set it as her profile on a new whatsapp page she created. She then sent a message to the husband using a different name saying, I hope you dont mind my sending you a message like this but I saw you the other day w

PURPOSE OF LIFE IN AN ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVES.

https://www.islamreligion.com/articles/280/viewall/purpose-of-life/