5 THINGS YOU MUST NOT ALLOW TO TAKE CONTROL OVER YOUR LIFE.

1. Your past. 
 Your past will always try to surface and redefine you, you must not allow it to take control over your present life or the future.  The pain you suffered in the past must be left behind you, so it will not ruin the fruitful future you are dreaming of.
  Whatever  happen in the past,  you must let it go, leave the darkness of the past behind, so it won't block the light  of your bright future. Whatever happened, whether  it is unjust, cruel, harsh or whatever  the case may be, reviewing the event will never do you any good except harm.
  If someone did you wrong, the only way you can deal with it is to let it go and move on. If you live with it, they win, if you want to win, you must focus on building your future and start right now. The moment is set for you to enjoy.
   
2. Other people's opinion and judgement. 
  Peoples opinion and judgements must not be the reason to take action,  don't  allow their summit to rule over your life, don't allow them to show you the direction of your life. The need to get related and feel among can cause you to embark on a journey you don't want to travel. Try as much as possible to avoid pleasing people because it is a curse that stand as obstacle in your life.
 Always check your intention at the beginning of any race, am i doing this because i want to do it or because of my fear of others opinion.
  Remember, you are born for a great mission, a mission that requires you to be appreciated and loved for who you are. Don't dim your light to fit into the dull background of other peoples life. Shine bright as you are,  those who really care for you, will see the light and shine with you.

3. Limited  belief you projected  on              yourself. 
  Try and notice your own limited beliefs and tell those around you to shut up. There is nothing you cannot do, nothing you cannot have and no one you cannot become, only if you believe in yourself. Successful people always think big, you need to do that as well. For a warrior to conquer the war,  he as already have an agenda of now or never. You have no limit and don't  let them make you feel like you can't achieve it.
You can and you will.
  
4. Relationships. 
    This is one of the biggest factor causing  setback for many people with good potential, our relatives, wife, children and parents stand to be a big block blocking the road to success,  they reduce our energy,  our will of achieving big because they don't want you to follow the path you choose.  The path that shows the inner strength of a leader, a ruler and a conqueror in you.
  Don't listen to the voice hindering  your progress, keep your head down, move on and they will later dance to the tune with you.
5. Money. 
  This is the saddest thing to see, when something that suppose to be the source of joy,  turn to source of unhappiness, purposely because we allow it to rule over our life.
  Well, this shouldn't be blame on money but man who possessed it. Importance and value of money will be there forever, it is the duty of man not to allow it to take over his life. We must have it in our mind that money is only a means to survive. Although it is necessary to earn enough in other to fill up the daily necessities that need long with some luxurious as well. Without money,  most things become difficult to bear.
 Excess importance must not be given to money because if you do that, it will start ruling over your  life. Money is like a drug because it can make you powerful. But only if the power is channel towards positive direction. Money will also make you feel like you are living a better life and then you forget who you really are. So never forget your principles, never forget your faith too. Lastly don't allow money to be the reason for living.